That is what you call a racial preferences that's not racist, since it's based on genuine attractiveness. What about people who are White who have a preference for Black people? Sense of humor, height, freckles, muscles, taste in movies — all of these are valid preferences. Same applies for dating preferences. So, why is it that many people generally find white people more attractive? People who are simply attracted to others, without fixating on race, without exclusion, without biases and prejudices, are not reinforcing racial inequalities.